Tri County Clippings- Page One Hundred Forty EightSubmitted by Reva Wagner & Sandy WagnerScrapbook belongs to Mildred Sweet, now age 99, and had been created by her mother Edyth UPDYKE "Sweet" |
These obituaries are presented in scrapbook order. I can't think of a better way of understanding a community than by reading an obituary scrapbook. |
Mrs George SMITH----Mrs. Mary A. Smith, wife of George SMITH, was born June
15,1832, and died Jan.17, 1908, at her home in Gray Valley, Sullivan township.
She was born one of three children of Sopher A and Lorinda Tears, who were among
the early residents of Tioga county. A sister, a former wife of Ananias
RICHMOND, of Mansfield, died about seven years ago, and a brother, Nelson A.
TEARS, resides on the home farm about one mile from Elk Run. In 1853 she
was united in marriage to George SMITH and they, after residing for a
number of years on farms, purchased at different times, bought the property in
Gray Valley, which has been their home for the past thirty six years .
Mr and Mrs SMITH have been blessed with four children,
all daughters---Josephine, wife of C.H. DeWITT, of Sullivan;Martha J. ,
wife of J. H. DeWITT, of Mainesburg; Lydia L., wife of Frank CASE, of troy; and
Ida M., wife of G. B. SQUIRES,of Gray Valley. These with the husband, ten
grandchildren, and other relatives, mourn the calling from their presence of one
who as wife, mother and friend was " to every duty faithful, in all good works
abundant,"
For the pat two years Mr. and Mrs. SMITH have both been
gradually failing in health, and for several weeks husband and children have
realized that parting soon must come. Their solace in the great
bereavement that has come. may be the thought that all that loving hearts could
prompt or willing service render was done for the comfort of her who had done so
much for them.
The funeral services were held on Monday afternoon,
January 20th, at the home, with burial in Mainesburg cemetery. The Rev F.
J ALLINGTON, pastor of the Mainesville M. E. church, officiated.
Hymns were song by G. E. ROBBINS and Mrs Maude SLINGERLAND. Many friends
and relatives were present and join in sympathy with those so deeply bereaved.
It is recognized that again "one who hath done what she could" in home below has
gone to dwell in that home above "not made with hands eternal in the heavens."
The pall-bearers were Oscar TEARS, Bert TEARS, Herman TEARS, nephews and George DeWITT and George CASE, grandsons of Mrs. SMITH.
CARY--- The funeral of Miss Alice Cary took place at the Church
of the Strangers, on Mercer-st., at 1 o'clock. Tuesday afternoon, and,
despite the severe snow-storm-which must have prevented many from coming was
attended by a very large number of the friends and admirers of the deceased
poet. The service opened with and organ voluntary from the "Messiah,"
followed by the anthem, "Vital Spark of Heavenly Flame." Dr. Deems, the pastor
of the church, read a selection from the 15th chapter of St. Paul's Epistle to
the Corinthians, and then said:
I have not thought of a single word to say to you
today, and I do not know that it is necessary to say one of us knew and loved
Alice CARY, and to those who did not know her my words would fail in describing
the sweetness and gentleness of her disposition and temper. It seems,
indeed, that, instead of standing here, I, too, should be sitting there among
the mourners. The speaker then described the patience with which she had
borne her last sickness, and told how he had been by her side when the pain was
so intense that the prints of her finger-nails would be left in the palm of his
hand as he was holding hers. But she never made a complaint. She was
a parishioner, said he, who came very close to my heart in her suffering and
sorrow. I saw how good and true she was, and the interest she had in all
the work I had in hand; and I feel as if an assistant had died out of my family.
The people of my congregation who did not know her ought to be glad that I did.
How many traits of tenderness have come before you here, how many observations
have I been able to make to you, because I had been with her! To-day I can
only make my lament over her as you do, in the simplicity of affection.
Men loved Alice CARY, and women loved her. When a man loves a woman it is
of nature; when a woman loves a woman it is of grace--of the grace that woman
makes by her loveliness; and it is one of the finest things that can be said of
Alice CARY, that she had such troops of friends of her own sex. On the
public side of her life she had honor, on the private side honor and tenderest
affection.
And now she has gone from our mortal sight, but not
from the eyes of our souls. She is gone from her pals, as she desired to
die, in sleep, and after a deep slumber time I saw her I took down her works and
alighted on this passage, so full of consonance with the anathema just sung by
the choir, and almost like a prophecy of the manner in which she died:
My soul is full of whispered sorrows,
My blindness is my sight;
The shadows that I feared so long
Are all alive with light.
There was one thing in Alice CARY of which we had
better remind ourselves of now, because many of us are our brains; and I see a
number of young people who are come out of tenderness to her memory to the
church to-day, and there may be among them literary people just commencing their
career, and they say, "Would I could write so beautifully and so easily as she
did." It was not easily done. She did nothing easily; but in all
this that we, read, she was an earnest worker; she was faithful, painstaking,
careful of improving herself, up to the last moment of her life. Yesterday
I looked into the drawer, and the last piece of MS, she wrote turned up, and I
said to Phebe, "That is that copied," and she said, "No, that is Alice's
writing." It was so exceedingly plain that it looked like print in large
type, though she wrote a very wretched hand. But her sister told me that
when she came to be so weak that she couldn't write much longer, she began to
practice like a little girl, to learn to form all her letters anew. She
worked to the very last, not only with the brains but the fingers.
When Phebe wrote me last Sunday that she was alone
and that Alice was gone, I couldn't help telling my people, and there was a sob
heard that went through the congregation. It was from an old lady, a
friend of hers, who often told me about her and spoke of her nobility of soul.
Alice CARY once thought of making a cap for her, and she said, "I will make a
cap for Mrs. Brown," but her fingers ached so and her arm became so tired, that
she had to drop it; and the needle is sticking in that unfinished cap now, just
as she left it. She would have finished it, but they had finished her own
crown and glory, and she couldn't stay away from her coronation. And we
will keep that cap with care; and I think Jesus will remind her of it, and say,
"Child, in as much as you did it to one of the least ones, you did it unto me."
Should I speak for hours, I could only tell how I loved her. She came to
me in the Winter of my fortunes, when I had very few friends, and I loved her,
and will revere her memory forever---forever. And now I will not shed a
tear for Alice CARY; I am glad she is gone. I felt at once saying, "Thanks
be to God," when I heard that the pain is over. And it was so delightful
to go to stand over her and see her face without a single frown, and to think,
"She is gone to her father and my father," and into His hands I commit her.
After the Episcopal Burial Service had been read,
the choir sang a hymn composed by Miss Phebe CARY called, "One Sweetly Solemn
Thought." Then the friends of Alice CARY were requested to look upon her
for the last time. The body was taken to Greenwood Cemetery for
internment. The pall-bearers were Horace GREELEY, Bayard TAYLOR, P.T.
BARNUM, Oliver JOHNSON, Dr. W.F. HOLCOMBE, A.J. JOHNSON, F.B. CARPENTER, and
Richard B. Kimball. Among the persons present were Wm Ross WALLACE, The
Rev. O.B. FROTHINGHAM, The Rev. C.F. LEE, The Rev. Dr. COOKMAN, James PARTON,
Fannie FERN, Mrs. Prof. BOTTA, Mrs. WILBOUR, John SAVAGE and many others.
The casket was plain, having merely a silver plate,
on which was inscribed:
Alice CAREY A.D., 1820 A.D. 1871
Dr. C. C. WALKER and Miss Hattie S. LILLEY the Happy Couple.
There was a very happy wedding in the city yesterday
afternoon, at which the city yesterday afternoon, at which Miss Hattie S. LILLEY
and Cr. C.C. WALKER, the well known dentist, were the persons who most attracted
attention. The ceremony was preformed at the residence of the bride by
Rev. M.L. Ganoe, at half-past three o'clock. The brides sister Miss Mame
Lilley, acted as maid of honor and the groom had retained Max L. MITCHELL, Esq.,
as best man. There were about one hundred and twenty guest present and
certainly none of them ever looked upon a fairer bride. I if the writer
himself should attempt to describe the dress of the bride he would have to be
content with saying it was some kind of soft, fluffy stuff, which was very
becoming, but a friend, of the gentler and more known sex says her dress was a
pearl crepe, trimmed with lace, and made with a train; that her slippers and
gloves matched the crepe; that she had a diamond brooch at her throat and
carried a bunch of LaFrance roses. She had a pink rose in her hair and one
in each cheek.
The dress of the maid of honor was an old gold China
silk. She carried jonquils. The groom was dressed in--but space
forbids detail. The rooms were decorated in Easter flowers and palms; the
ceremony was performed under a canopy or bell of Easter lilies. The
presents were many and beautiful, conspicuous among them being a watch given by
the groom. There were handsome pictures, a quantity of cut glass, a
fine book case, bric-a-brac, several clocks, a curious Japanese banner, a pretty
table,etc., etc..
After congratulations had been given a luncheon was
served, and at 6:45 the happy couple left for Washington, D.C., and the eastern
cities, taking with them the best wishes of many friends, a trunk smothered in
bridal ribbons, about six bushels of rice and seven old shoes, all filled with
good luck.
a.. Wedding Bells
On the 12th of April, 1894, memorable for its great
snow and drifted roads, piest of weddings, that of Samuel B. ROCKWELL and
MERTIE A. SWEET, at the home of the bride, in Austinville,PA. The almost
superhuman efforts of the guests to arrive, through the snow, giving all the
sensations of heroes, the outstretched arms of welcome at the door, the lovely
flowers, the air of hope and promise within, the manly bridegroom, the lovely
bride, all conspired to make the occasion, as a portion of eternal sunshine, in
the minds of all. The marriage ceremony was performed at 12:30 p.m. by
Rev. E.E. BAILEY, of Mansfield,PA. The bridal couple were attended by Mr.
and Mrs. Fred POMEROY, of Troy. Congratulations followed and then an
invitation to the bountiful wedding dinner and here merriment and joy o'er
flowed. After the repast the many and beautiful of the occasion were
viewed and admired by the bridal couple and the guests. And soon
thereafter the bride and groom left for their wedding trip to Niagara Falls and
elsewhere, expecting to return in a few days to reside on the ROCKWELL farm in
Sullivan township, four miles from Mansfield, where they will be pleased to meet
all their friends and acquaintances.
LILLEY--MANLEY---In East Canton, March 19th, at the residence of Thos. MANLEY
by Rev. S.P. GATES, Sumner LILLEY and Sarah A MANLEY.
The pleasant home of Thom. S. MANLEY, of East Canton, was
the scene of a very happy event on Wednesday afternoon, March 19th, it being the
occasion of the marriage of his daughters, Miss Lydia O. and Arthur M. MASON,
and Miss Sarah A. to C. Sumner LILLEY. Guests to the number of nearly one
hundred had been invited, nearly all of whom were present. The presents
were numerous and elegant, comprising nearly all of whom were present. The
presents were numerous and elegant, comprising nearly everything useful and
ornamental that one finds in the modern household. Silver tea sets, silver
castors, butter dishes, pickle dishes, hanging lamps, handsome tea sets, hand
painted and hand embroidered pin cushions, carpet sweepers, toilet sets, bed
spreads, towels, napkins, two sets Chamber's encyclopedia,&c. Canton
Sentinel
One of the events of the Xmas tide season was the wedding on
Wednesday evening of last week, which filled the M.E. church with a large
audience, the occasion being the marriage of Gertrude E. CORNELL, eldest
daughter of Mr. and Mrs. George CORNELL, to Edwin Frank LOOMIS, founder and
proprietor of the Troy Register. The decorations were carried out in the
color scheme of green and white. Ropes of laurel brought from the ceiling
over the chandelier were fastened at the four corners of the church with bows of
white fulle, while festoons of laurel caught with bows garlanded the edge of the
platform. A fretwork of laurel hid the organ from view, while post of
laurel, lighted artistically, and all surmounted by a marriage bell of greenery,
and arches of laurel at the end of the aisles, through which the bridal party
appeared, completed the arrangements. A preliminary organ recital while
guests were congregating, was rendered by Miss Bess Lee GALLATIN, at the close
of which the following ribbon bearers, all prettily, but simply attired,
entered, carrying ribbons of tulle through the three aisles, which heralded the
approach of the wedding party; the Misses Julia PRICE, Louise WILLIAMS, Jessie
LUCKEY, Troy, Leafy NICHOLS, Corning, Edith STONE, Mabel HAGER, Nellie SMITH,,
and Carrie LINDLEY, Canton. Those entering from the central aisle were the
maid of honor, Miss Ruth MURRAY PECK, gowned in white silk mulie and carrying a
shower bouquet of hyacinths and asparagus ferns, followed by the bride, who was
radiant in white crepe de Paris over white silk with tulle veil, carrying white
bride roses and leaning on the arm of her father, while from the left aisle the
brides maids, the Miss Bertha BENJAMIN of Trenton, N.J., Miss Ella Mae FOSTER if
Canton, Miss Jenny SHAW of Trenton, NJ, and Miss Anna BOTTCHER of Troy, all
becomingly gowned in white of a filmy texture and carrying bouquets of white
hyacinths, while from the right entrance the best man, Ralph :LOOMIS, ushers,
F.E. VANDYNE, Wilbur PARSONS, Edwin GRANT, and Carl FANNING jr., of Towanda, the
groom and officiating clergyman, all met at the altar, where the ring ceremony
was performed by the Rev. A.E. HALL, at the close of which all the party joined
in repeating the Lord's prayer, when the organ pealed forth the strains of
Mendelssohn's wedding march, and the party left the church and repaired to the
home of the bride, where a reception was held.
After congratulations a fine wedding menu was served
under the supervision of Troy's famed cateress, Miss Jean NELSON. The
house was decorated in colors befitting the Xmas tide season, while the bride's
table was unusually pretty and effective. A large red bell, suspended over
the table, from which streamers of a corresponding color were attached and
fastened at the four corners of the table, still enhanced by a table mirror,
candelabra and red and white carnations. An attractive feature of the
affair was the array of presents, of cut glass, silver, linen, rugs, furniture,
etc..
The guests present besides the bridal party were Judge
A.C. FANNING and Mrs. FANNING, Miss Edith LOOMIS, Towanda, J.W. STONE, Lee
BROOKS, Floyd INNES and wives, Ted BURKE, Mary ADAMS, Canton, Mr and Mrs. M.F.
NICHOLS, Perry NICHOLS, Corning, Miss Apphia ANDREWS, Athens, Mr and Mrs
Clarence PECKHAM, Edith, Winifred, Mildred, Helen, Jennie PECKHAM, O.F. PECKHAM,
Laura, Eunice and Ida PECKHAM, Mr and Mrs. R.K. CORNELL, Merle CORNELL, Mr. and
Mrs Henry Cornell and Miss Elizabeth DEVON, Columbia X Roads; Mrs. A.E. HALL,
Mrs. Marie LOOMIS and Miss Martha ANDREWS.
The bride and groom left on the late train south for a
trip to Philadelphia and New York.
Yesterday's ROBBINS-POMEROY Wedding
Yesterday afternoon at half after two occurred a most
charming wedding at "North View," the home of Mr and Mrs. Otis F. ROBBINS, near
Mansfield, when their only daughter, Jesse Elizabeth, became the bride of John
Webber POMEROY of this place. The rooms were beautifully decorated with
ground pine, bitter sweet berries and boughs of yellow autumn leaves. In
the hall where the ceremony was to take place, the stairway was wound the corner
by the windows where the bridal party were to stand, ran a screen of laurel
greens, topped by a band of French marigolds, above which festoons of ground
pine fell from a bunch of the same yellow blossoms.
The guests were received in the parlor by Mr. and Mrs.
ROBBINS, Mrs. ROBBINS wearing a gown of biscuit colored Rajah, Mr. and Mrs. John
RUGGLES of Athens, Mr. and Mrs. Archibald ROBBINS, Mr. and Mrs. Archibald
RUGGLES, Mr. and Mrs. George LAY, Mr and Mrs. Walter J. RUGGLES, Towanda, Mr C.
Burton POMEROY, Mr and Mrs. Fayette B. POMEROY, Mr. and Mrs. John T. SHAW of
Detroit, Mich. During the assembling of the guests, a most beautiful
musical program was rendered by the orchestra stationed in an adjoining
room-Miss Anna BOTTCHER, violinist, Mr. Henry SHERMAN, trombonist, and Miss
Amelia LAMPKIN, pianist. The selections included
Pilgrim's Chorus from Tannhauser WAGNER
Largo..........................................HANDEL
Prize Song from Die Meistersinger...WAGNER
Lullaby from Jocelyn...........................GODARD
O, Fair and Sweet and Holy...................CANTOR
Thy Beaming Eyes.............................MacDOWELL
Waltzes from Faust.................................GOUNOD
Introduction and Third Act of Lohenfrin and Bridal
Chorus....................................................WAGNER
As the first chords of the Bridal Chorus were sounded the
bridal party entered the room. First came Rev. Edward P. MORSE, pastor of
the First Presbyterian Church Troy, and The Rev. Alexander G. CAMERON, pastor of
the Sylvania Presbyterian church, followed by the groom, attended by his
brother, Edwin POMEROY, as best man. After them came Helen RUGGLES of
Athens, and Dorothy RUGGLES of Towanda, with the streamers of ground pine which
made the aisle for the bride and which were held at the other end by Miss PAINE
and Miss SALTMARSH. They were followed by the flower girl, little Mary
Anna ROBBINS, carrying a basket of white asters. The three little girls
all wore frocks of white swiss embroidery. The maid of honor, Miss
Henrietta POMEROY, followed, wearing a gown of white china crepe with Irish lace
and carrying a large bunch of maiden hair ferns tied with yellow ribbon.
Te bride then entered, leaning on the arm of her father, who gave her away.
She was beautiful in a gown of white chiffon crepe de Chine, made princess, with
Mechlin lace and pearl ornaments. Her voluminous tulle veil, which fell to
the edge of her long train, was held in place by a wreath of orange blossoms, a
spray of the same waxen flowers being caught to her shoulder. These
blossoms were the "something old" which every bride must wear, having adorned
another bride in the POMEROY family. She carried a bouquet of bride's
roses and wore at her throat a diamond and pearl brooch, the gift of the groom.
After the entrance of the party the streamers of ground pine were gathered in
the he form of a V and held by Brewster RUGGLES of Towanda. "Ben Bott" was
played softly during the short but impressive ring ceremony performed by Rev.
Edward P. MORSE, in which Rev. Alexander CAMERON offered the prayer.
Soon after receiving congratulations, the bride and groom
led the way to the dining room. In the center of the bride's table was a
basket of marigolds, the handle decorated with a yellow satin bow. Crystal
baskets filled with marigolds were at wither end and the light came from white
candles in crystal candlesticks. The place cards were decorated with
yellow nasturtiums in water colors. The buffet was banked at the top with
marigolds and lighted by ten candles. At this table, besides the bride and
groom, were seated Mr. and Mrs. Archibald ROBBINS, Mr.and Mrs. John T. SHAW,
Detroit,Mich., Mr and Mrs. Fayette B. POMEROY, Mrs George O. HOLCOMBE, Miss
POMEROY, Mr Edwin POMEROY, and Mr Horace Burton POMEROY of New York. the
other relatives and friends were seated at small tables in other rooms, the
luncheon being served by St. Peter;Peter's Guild.
During the afternoon the orchestra played selections from
various operas. A delightful event was a solo by the bride. For some
time a leader of the Presbyterian choir of Troy, her rich contralto voice has
been loved by all who have heard, and when she sang "Beauty's Eyes" by TOSTOI,
her listeners stood spellbound. As she ascended the stairs to don her
traveling suit, she threw her bouquet which was caught by Miss Eloise MITCHELL,
the nine parts being divided among the girls grouped together. Some of
these bunches contained the fateful pieces, the ring being found by Miss Ruth
PECK, the coin by Miss POMEROY and the thimble by Miss LAMKIN. The bride's
going away costume was a blue silk chiffon broadcloth with blue silk blouse and
hat of blue panne velvet.
The bride and groom, Mr. Burton POMEROY, Mr. and Mrs.
SHAW, Mr. Edwin POMEROY and Mr Horace POMEROY drove to "Stone Acres," the home
of Mr. and Mrs. Fayette POMEROY, where they took dinner, the bride and groom
leaving on the midnight train for Washington, New York and Philadelphia.
Mrs. POMEROY, who has been connected with Troy society
for the past few years, is a most charming and talented young woman, who in this
space of time has made for herself a host of friends. Before becoming the
leader of the Presbyterian choir, she was for some time connected with the
choirs of various churches in Philadphia and Germantown.
The groom is one of the elder sons of Mr C. Burton
POMEROY and has long been noted for his business ability and many sterling
qualities.
On their return, Mr. and Mrs. POMEROY will reside at the
homestead," POMEROY Place," which has for some time been the property of Mr.
POMEROY.
A fine little daughter came Monday to gladden the home of Mr and Mrs. John W. POMEROY. The little stranger has been named Sophia Elizabeth after her grandmother and mother. NO DATE!! Was under the above.
ANDRUS---SWEET
Arthur SWEET and Miss Lydia ANDRUS were married at
the home of the bride in Troy at the noon hour on Wednesday, December 14th.
The immediate families made up the wedding party, and included M.H. SWEET, Lucy
A. SWEET, Mrs. M.A. SWEET, Mrs. A.M. CORNELL, Harold CORNELL and Mrs Fanny
PORTER. The parlors were prettily decorated with evergreen. Miss Mae
LAMPMAN of Mountain Lake played the wedding march, James ANDRUS acted as best
man, and Miss Pearl HOWLAND as bridesmaid. The bride was gowned in blue
silk taffeta trimmed in cream appliqué. A fine array of presents betokened
the love and best wishes of many friends. A dining room set in quartered
oak consisting of sideboard, table and chairs, silverware, and $165.00 in money
made up some of the substantial gifts.
Jenne NELSON acted as caterer and served an elaborate
dinner in her usual style. NO DATES!!!
POMEROY----McKNIGHT
A notable event socially was the wedding at 6:30 last
evening of Miss Henrietta Davison POMEROY, the accomplished only daughter
of Mr. and Mrs. Newton Merrick POMEROY, to Mr Francis Herron MCKNIGHT of New
York. The ceremony was performed by the bride's pastor, the Rev. Edward P.
MORSE, in the presence of a company of about 300, in the First Presbyterian
church which was effectively decorated with Japanese clematis and a wealth of
gladioli. Beginning at 6 o'clock the following organ and trombone numbers
were given by Mrs. Amelia LAMKIN WEIGESTER and Mr. Henry SHERMAN;
March from Athalia...........Mendelssohn
Valse 6.....................................Chopin
Walter's Prize Song..................Wagner
Gavotte, from Mignon,...............Thomas
Trombone Solo--Largo................Handel
Military March.........................Schubert
Serenade.....................................Nolch
Introduction to Third Act and Bridal Chor-
us............................................Wagner
With the Bridal Chorus the wedding party entered.
The Nocturne from Mendelssohn's Midsummer Night's Dream was softly played during
the ceremony, swelling to the Wedding March as they left the church. The
bride entered with her sister and was given in marriage by her father. She
was beautifully gowned in cream satin with court train, old family lace, and
tulle veil with orange blossoms. She carried white Japanese anemonies.
Her attendants were her sister, Miss Mary DAVISON of New York, Miss Theodosia DE
RIEMER HAWLEY of New York, and Miss Charlotte PAINE of Troy, bridesmaids; Misses
Alice and Frances DAVISON, flower girls, in pink chiffon, carrying baskets of
white cosmos, and Master Harry DAVISON, page. Mr. T. H.B. McKNIGHT of
Pittsburg, was best man. The ushers were Mr J.C. SCOTT of Canton,Ohio, Mr
Charles CHUBB and Mr. Watson ADAIR of Pittsburg,NY; Mr. Herbert HOLCOMBE of
Philadelphia and Mr Samuel HAMILTON, of Jamestown, NY.
On account of the ill health of Mrs. POMEROY the
reception and wedding were at the handsome home of the bride's cousin, Mrs.
George O. HOLCOMBE, next door. Invitations were limited to relatives and
three of four near friends of the POMEROY family. White cosmos
predominated in the floral decorations. The music was by Mrs. WEIGESTER,
Henry SHERMAN, and Miss Anna BOTTCHER. For dinner which was served by St.
Peter's Guild, the guests were seated at three tables as follows; At the brides
table the bridal party and Mr. and Mrs. Charles McKNIGHT and Mrs Harlan
McKNIGHT, of Pittsburgh; Mr and Mrs. D.E. POMEROY of Englewood; Mr. and Mrs
Henry McKNIGHT of New York; Mrs. G. O. HOLCOMBE; Mr. N.M. POMEROY, Miss Lucile
CHURCHILL, of Erie, Miss Alice P. SMITH, of Elmira.
Mr and Mrs. Samuel JEWELL of Canton; Mr. and Mrs KNOX, of
Johnstown; Mrs. B.L. TRUMAN of Owego; Mr. and Mrs. J.W. LAMKIN, Mrs M.B.
BALLARD, Mr. Wilson WEIGESTER, Mrs E.P. MORSE, Mrs B.B. MITCHELL, Mrs. C.M.
KNOX.
Mrs. William SALLMON of New Haven; Dr. ROE of Rochester;
Rev. E.P. MORSE, Mr. Liston BLISS, Dr. M.P. BALLARD, Mrs S.B. WILLET, Miss
Jennie LONG, Towanda; Rev. Charles H. McKNIGHT, Elmira.
Master Harry DAVISON and Frances and Alice Davison of New
York.
Mr. McKNIGHT, the bridegroom, is the Secretary of the
group of bankers who financed the Chilnese loan--J.P. MORGAN & Co., KUHU, LOEB
&Co., the National Bank all of New York. He formerly resided in Pittsburg,
where still reside his twp brothers, one of whom is treasurer of the
Pennsylvania Railroad Company.
The bride received many valuable gifts---an exquisite
diamond brooch from the groom, securities from her father and brother, a grand
piano from Mr. and Mrs. D.E. POMEROY, chest of household silver from the Messers
McKNIGHT, etc..
Mr. and Mrs. McKNIGHT left last night for Gloucester, Mass., where
they will occupy for a time the beautiful Italian cottage of Miss Mary DAVISON.
They will also during their honeymoon motor through New England. They will
be at home after January 1st in New York at 138 East Fortieth street.
CARY--- The funeral of Miss Alice Cary took place at the Church
of the Strangers, on Mercer-st., at 1 o'clock. Tuesday afternoon, and,
despite the severe snow-storm-which must have prevented many from coming was
attended by a very large number of the friends and admirers of the deceased
poet. The service opened with and organ voluntary from the "Messiah,"
followed by the anthem, "Vital Spark of Heavenly Flame." Dr. Deems, the pastor
of the church, read a selection from the 15th chapter of St. Paul's Epistle to
the Corinthians, and then said:
I have not thought of a single word to say to you
today, and I do not know that it is necessary to say one of us knew and loved
Alice CARY, and to those who did not know her my words would fail in describing
the sweetness and gentleness of her disposition and temper. It seems,
indeed, that, instead of standing here, I, too, should be sitting there among
the mourners. The speaker then described the patience with which she had
borne her last sickness, and told how he had been by her side when the pain was
so intense that the prints of her finger-nails would be left in the palm of his
hand as he was holding hers. But she never made a complaint. She was
a parishioner, said he, who came very close to my heart in her suffering and
sorrow. I saw how good and true she was, and the interest she had in all
the work I had in hand; and I feel as if an assistant had died out of my family.
The people of my congregation who did not know her ought to be glad that I did.
How many traits of tenderness have come before you here, how many observations
have I been able to make to you, because I had been with her! To-day I can
only make my lament over her as you do, in the simplicity of affection.
Men loved Alice CARY, and women loved her. When a man loves a woman it is
of nature; when a woman loves a woman it is of grace--of the grace that woman
makes by her loveliness; and it is one of the finest things that can be said of
Alice CARY, that she had such troops of friends of her own sex. On the
public side of her life she had honor, on the private side honor and tenderest
affection.
And now she has gone from our mortal sight, but not
from the eyes of our souls. She is gone from her pals, as she desired to
die, in sleep, and after a deep slumber time I saw her I took down her works and
alighted on this passage, so full of consonance with the anathema just sung by
the choir, and almost like a prophecy of the manner in which she died:
My soul is full of whispered sorrows,
My blindness is my sight;
The shadows that I feared so long
Are all alive with light.
There was one thing in Alice CARY of which we had
better remind ourselves of now, because many of us are our brains; and I see a
number of young people who are come out of tenderness to her memory to the
church to-day, and there may be among them literary people just commencing their
career, and they say, "Would I could write so beautifully and so easily as she
did." It was not easily done. She did nothing easily; but in all
this that we, read, she was an earnest worker; she was faithful, painstaking,
careful of improving herself, up to the last moment of her life. Yesterday
I looked into the drawer, and the last piece of MS, she wrote turned up, and I
said to Phebe, "That is that copied," and she said, "No, that is Alice's
writing." It was so exceedingly plain that it looked like print in large
type, though she wrote a very wretched hand. But her sister told me that
when she came to be so weak that she couldn't write much longer, she began to
practice like a little girl, to learn to form all her letters anew. She
worked to the very last, not only with the brains but the fingers.
When Phebe wrote me last Sunday that she was alone
and that Alice was gone, I couldn't help telling my people, and there was a sob
heard that went through the congregation. It was from an old lady, a
friend of hers, who often told me about her and spoke of her nobility of soul.
Alice CARY once thought of making a cap for her, and she said, "I will make a
cap for Mrs. Brown," but her fingers ached so and her arm became so tired, that
she had to drop it; and the needle is sticking in that unfinished cap now, just
as she left it. She would have finished it, but they had finished her own
crown and glory, and she couldn't stay away from her coronation. And we
will keep that cap with care; and I think Jesus will remind her of it, and say,
"Child, in as much as you did it to one of the least ones, you did it unto me."
Should I speak for hours, I could only tell how I loved her. She came to
me in the Winter of my fortunes, when I had very few friends, and I loved her,
and will revere her memory forever---forever. And now I will not shed a
tear for Alice CARY; I am glad she is gone. I felt at once saying, "Thanks
be to God," when I heard that the pain is over. And it was so delightful
to go to stand over her and see her face without a single frown, and to think,
"She is gone to her father and my father," and into His hands I commit her.
After the Episcopal Burial Service had been read,
the choir sang a hymn composed by Miss Phebe CARY called, "One Sweetly Solemn
Thought." Then the friends of Alice CARY were requested to look upon her
for the last time. The body was taken to Greenwood Cemetery for
internment. The pall-bearers were Horace GREELEY, Bayard TAYLOR, P.T.
BARNUM, Oliver JOHNSON, Dr. W.F. HOLCOMBE, A.J. JOHNSON, F.B. CARPENTER, and
Richard B. Kimball. Among the persons present were Wm Ross WALLACE, The
Rev. O.B. FROTHINGHAM, The Rev. C.F. LEE, The Rev. Dr. COOKMAN, James PARTON,
Fannie FERN, Mrs. Prof. BOTTA, Mrs. WILBOUR, John SAVAGE and many others.
The casket was plain, having merely a silver plate,
on which was inscribed:
Alice CAREY A.D., 1820 A.D. 1871
Dr. C. C. WALKER and Miss Hattie S. LILLEY the Happy Couple.
There was a very happy wedding in the city yesterday
afternoon, at which the city yesterday afternoon, at which Miss Hattie S. LILLEY
and Cr. C.C. WALKER, the well known dentist, were the persons who most attracted
attention. The ceremony was preformed at the residence of the bride by
Rev. M.L. Ganoe, at half-past three o'clock. The brides sister Miss Mame
Lilley, acted as maid of honor and the groom had retained Max L. MITCHELL, Esq.,
as best man. There were about one hundred and twenty guest present and
certainly none of them ever looked upon a fairer bride. I if the writer
himself should attempt to describe the dress of the bride he would have to be
content with saying it was some kind of soft, fluffy stuff, which was very
becoming, but a friend, of the gentler and more known sex says her dress was a
pearl crepe, trimmed with lace, and made with a train; that her slippers and
gloves matched the crepe; that she had a diamond brooch at her throat and
carried a bunch of LaFrance roses. She had a pink rose in her hair and one
in each cheek.
The dress of the maid of honor was an old gold China
silk. She carried jonquils. The groom was dressed in--but space
forbids detail. The rooms were decorated in Easter flowers and palms; the
ceremony was performed under a canopy or bell of Easter lilies. The
presents were many and beautiful, conspicuous among them being a watch given by
the groom. There were handsome pictures, a quantity of cut glass, a
fine book case, bric-a-brac, several clocks, a curious Japanese banner, a pretty
table,etc., etc..
After congratulations had been given a luncheon was
served, and at 6:45 the happy couple left for Washington, D.C., and the eastern
cities, taking with them the best wishes of many friends, a trunk smothered in
bridal ribbons, about six bushels of rice and seven old shoes, all filled with
good luck.
a.. Wedding Bells
On the 12th of April, 1894, memorable for its great
snow and drifted roads, piest of weddings, that of Samuel B. ROCKWELL and
MERTIE A. SWEET, at the home of the bride, in Austinville,PA. The almost
superhuman efforts of the guests to arrive, through the snow, giving all the
sensations of heroes, the outstretched arms of welcome at the door, the lovely
flowers, the air of hope and promise within, the manly bridegroom, the lovely
bride, all conspired to make the occasion, as a portion of eternal sunshine, in
the minds of all. The marriage ceremony was performed at 12:30 p.m. by
Rev. E.E. BAILEY, of Mansfield,PA. The bridal couple were attended by Mr.
and Mrs. Fred POMEROY, of Troy. Congratulations followed and then an
invitation to the bountiful wedding dinner and here merriment and joy o'er
flowed. After the repast the many and beautiful of the occasion were
viewed and admired by the bridal couple and the guests. And soon
thereafter the bride and groom left for their wedding trip to Niagara Falls and
elsewhere, expecting to return in a few days to reside on the ROCKWELL farm in
Sullivan township, four miles from Mansfield, where they will be pleased to meet
all their friends and acquaintances.
|